|
Explaination 11:26 p.m. Part of me knows that it's ok to be who I am. To be like I am. Actually, all of ME knows it's ok. But I don't think other people think it's ok. I want to change. I don't want to change like this, but it's the easiest way. And I'm just so damn lazy. I can't be strong and follow all those rules and guidelines it takes to do this any other way. I think it's ok to be how I am. It's not desired, but it's not bad. But ever since Thursday I've felt inferior. And with good reason. Why shouldn't I feel inferior? I have no reason to feel good about myself. Being rejected while others take places I should have had a chance at does nothing good for my ego. Or self-esteem. This is how I cope with rejection. It is ugly. It makes me ugly. I am ugly. I can't stop because I have no more self-esteem to lose. I really don't. Every time I lose a bit of self-esteem, I set up a cycle. Each tear I shed over it makes me weaker, and I hate the weakness. But the weakness is me, thus, I hate myself a little bit more. A little more self-hate added to the already full and overflowing pot of self-hate. So... So I start to feel fat. I feel fat. I am fat. Is that enough explanation for you? Do you see now, why I do this? It's not a cry for help. Well, in a way. But it's more of a release. And a boost for my self-esteem. A boost that leads to an incredible drop afterwards because of the guilt and disappointment in myself. It's temporary relief. Like pepto bismol. Or cigarettes. ~Me |
|
how this works |